People usually see the world's point of view, can be divided into looking up, head-up, overlooking the three.
Heads-up,
is the most normal and most comfortable vision, from the calm of the
sense of balance, contains a mature and confident, neither overbearing
nor impatient, is not conducive to steady forward, not easy wrestling
accident. Look up, is used to look tall than us and the perspective of
the object, the so-called Takayama Yangzhi. Often looking up, from the
benefits, let us know that there are days, people outside, learn from
example, than a benchmark, not as a bottom frog, arrogant; from the side
view, look up for a long time, not only neck pain, but also tend to Let
us feel inferior heart, feel very small, everything is better than
people, always in a state of repression.
Overlooking
the "list of small hills," is used to look at people and things lower
than our point of view. Some people are not as good as we are, we are
not as fame as we are, and our social status is not as good as ours.
When we turn our eyes to them, our eyes can not help but despise,
snobbery and compassion. Most of the time, we often ignore them, turn a
blind eye to them, because we envy the eyes have been staring at those
who are higher than our successful people, busy and those wealthy,
celebrities relatively high and low, see jealous, Than was exhausted.
From
the natural law point of view, in general, young people like to look
up, "young mind when taking cloud", in their eyes, few can see the
people, only those famous masters will enter the famous field of vision .
Like Liu Bang to see the emperor, dare to say "when a real man," Xiang
Yu than he also cattle: "he can be replaced." Middle-aged, peace of
mind, edge convergence, and also know that troubled world, Flat, do not
hesitate to walk on the road, in an orderly manner toward their own
goals. Into the old state, the weather-beaten, read countless people,
"see the moon in spring", is no longer obsessed with fame, feasting,
coupled with waist camel, and back bend, vertigo, naturally unnatural
look down as a habit .
Of
course, vary, and some people are looking up in life, life is aimed at a
higher goal. He may live a very pomp, very bright, but certainly live
very tired, very hasty, just get one city, but no time to browse the
scenery, enjoy life, in fact, his life is very wrong. Therefore, when we
look up very tired, may wish to look down and see those who live in the
bottom of society people, although they and we are the same people, but
education is lower than us, income less than us, the house than we are
small , Work as we are decent, social status is inferior to us, always
unknown to them, in front of them, we often have a sense of superiority,
usually very dismissive, rarely glance to them.
In
fact, their survival wisdom and social value is not lower than us,
their contribution and labor is not less than us, we do not have any
high reason for pride. And often contact with them, there will be
unexpected gains. If a white-collar workers in the workplace struggle to
be physically and mentally exhausted, in the market competition was
life and death, the occasion of the use of breathing, bow down to see
the cobbler street repair car, street lane, scavenger, you will Think,
even if you retreat ten steps, hundred paces, but also higher than his
standard of living, why should go for those things outside the
contentious to win it?
By
extension, an official for the poor career is no better than the upper
floors and distress, may wish to look down at the people under the day
to sit at their home, listen to what they have difficulties, what
expectations; To the hand pain is still to make more money and anxiety
of the boss, but also condescension to the hands of the staff home to
sit and see what they are thinking, why He Le; a battle plan for the
development of racking their brains General, may wish to sneak in to the
soldiers of the big account in the turn, listen to their ideas and
suggestions, will be a worthwhile trip. Often look down, may let us
change thinking, may also make our impetuous mind to be soothing, will
make our frenzy of desire to be cooled, into a normal psychological
person, not a money machine, a workplace Madman, a disciple of the camp.
Often look down, is the rest is relaxed, is charging is decompression, it is wise move.